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分手后,忍不住撕照片、删微信,怎么破?
来源:21mr007客户端    日期: 2014-11-20
      这一刻突然觉得好熟悉,像昨天今天同时在放映,我这句语气原来好像你,不就是我们爱过的证据……微博、朋友圈里的幸福合影,短信、微信里的浪漫言语,珍藏起来的电影票据……当TA已经远离,这些你曾经很在乎的东西,都成了心坎上的一道疤,时时提醒你曾经的美好。不舍丢,不忍看,到底该怎么处理那些爱过的痕迹呢?世纪君献上6招!拿走不谢啦~     
   第一招:等待,时间是最好的疗伤良药
           时间是治愈一切的良药。等一个月,或许更久……总有一天,你看着TA的微博、微信朋友圈,突然云淡风轻,不再萌生出“我特么要摔电脑了”的冲动。等待的时间会很漫长,期间,你可能会有些脑残,歇斯底里……但千万不要因为情绪失控做出错误决定,比如扔电脑神马的,得不偿失啊!         Wait a month. Wait longer. Wait until you can look at his or her Facebook profile without feeling something bad in your chest, or the urge to throw your laptop. No good decision, in this century or any other, has ever been made in the fresh wake of a breakup. Please, please don't throw your laptop.     
   第二招:删照片?NO!雪藏就好~
           不要把照片都删了,真的!不然以后你后悔妥妥的!这倒不是因为你们还有和好的可能,而是照片不仅代表了一段失败的爱情,也记录了你生活的精彩瞬间(广告么……)。它们是你珍贵的回忆,表太鲁莽,不计后果。世纪君:你没有自己想象中的那么脆弱~         Don't delete these. Really, don't. You'll regret it if you do. Not because maybe someday you'll get back together and be so glad you kept it all. You probably won't. But these pictures aren't just small monuments to a failed romance, they're high-resolution instants from your life, recorded forever, unfading. This is matter you'll want years and decades from now—don't be rash and trash it.            更好的做法是:跳过它们。找个移动硬盘,把这些你暂时不想看到的照片存过去!可以把它藏在抽屉里,床底下,或交给朋友保存(记得设密保)。当你彻底放下,再将它们翻出来,看看过去的自己。为了前任毁掉自己的回忆?不值得!         Instead, vault it. Copy everything that's too much to look at onto an external hard drive or some remote backup system, and then delete it from your machine. Put that hard drive in a sock drawer or under your bed. Give it to a friend. Place it where it won't distract and won't harm, but, when you're ready, can provide a vivid reminder of who you used to be. That's incredibly powerful! Don't destroy it on a whim.     
   第三招:删除音乐播放列表?这个可以有
           删了吧!它只会勾起你的伤感!热恋期,播放列表上满满的都是见证甜蜜爱情的歌曲,现如今……里面的每个音符都可能让你痛不欲生。倒不如换成自己喜欢的歌曲,一切从头再来~         Yeah, toss these. All leftover playlists will do is smear heartbreaking meaning and nostalgia over songs you'd otherwise enjoy. Remember, you made this playlist explicitly for your ex—you tailored songs you both love in an order you thought might make them smile, miss you. And all those memories could swamp you based on nothing but this otherwise innocuous list of MP3s. So get rid of the list. Keep the songs though.     
   第四招:打包电子邮件,封存昔日回忆
           异地恋?处理电子邮件也是必不可少滴~它们虽不如短信快捷,但在漫漫长夜里,寂寞旅途中,它们也曾承载着你无尽相思。别再沉溺过去,一封封地翻看了,还是全都存档吧!搜索出TA的所有邮件,然后将它们打包放到一个单独的文件夹里去。记住哦!这些邮件也是你的专属回忆。         Emails can be as banal and brief as any text message, but there are plenty of exceptions: long ones penned while abroad, or traveling, mail with attachments, breakup letters, I Miss You letters. Rather than sift through everything, archive it all. Do a search for his or her email, select all, and pack it away into a folder or some other deep depth of your account. Remember: this email is part of your life history.     
   第五招:短信神马的删掉妥妥哒~
           正所谓:长痛不如短痛,眼不见心不烦……昔日短信中的甜言蜜语还是删除吧,与其看着闹心,不如就此相忘于江湖~         Delete—this is just an invitation to wallow and/or leap back into ill-advised contact. Both are bad for you.     
   第六招:社交网络,挥别昔日恋情
           网络时代,在社交媒体上秀恩爱神马的那是常事儿。可一旦分手了,还是果断清理一下吧。别说世纪君没提醒你们,将来有了新欢(不出意外你们都会有的),这些都是引发战争的导火索啊……         Again, an opportunity to wallow, a web browser shortcut to melancholy. And who wants a future prospect to see a bunch of pictures with your ex?      原创文章,未经许可不得转载。




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